Making mistakes while performing a sexual activity is very common. It occurs due to the “I KNOW IT ALL” attitude. But it is not always complementary to make mistakes as making mistakes can lead to a bad impression as well as sexual dissatisfaction with your partner. Sexual mistakes can create confusion and make it your habit to perform wrong. To spice up your sex life you must explore different types of sex and it is not limited to the penis in the vagina but oral, manual, hand jobs as well. Turn it into an erotic one instead of a boring one. Let’s not judge but learn ahead about the common mistakes men make while performing sexual activity.
- Starting Sex Directly: it is very important for men to understand the fact that arousal is very important before performing sex for smoother functioning and better satisfaction. Usually, men don’t do enough of foreplay which is very important for women. Women take time to turn on. So, to kick start your sexual activity it is very important to make her feel comfortable by kissing her, hugging her, touching her, appreciating her and most importantly talking to her. Your women will be more comfortable when start your day with a foreplay as she feels safe and relaxed in your arms. You must focus on entire body instead of focusing of just one body part. Make it journey of pleasures without jumping to sex directly.
- Making Assumptions: it is very important for you to know whether your woman is enjoying you over her or not instead of making an assumption that ‘yes she is enjoying it with me’. It is not necessary for your present to enjoy you like your ex did. She is not your ex. Are you aware what most of the women do when they are on bed? No? Alright. Most of the women these days are doing nothing but faking orgasms so you will never know if she is enjoying you or not. What can be the best way to know whether she is enjoying it or not? I will tell you; the best way would be to ask questions and talk in middle of your sexual activity. Talk romantic and ask Questions like-
- How are you feeling?
- Do you want us to change position?
- Do you have any fantasies?
- Would you like to perform under the shower?
- Let us try something different, what say?
- Shall I stop?
- Do you want it more?
Asking such types of questions can actually help you in knowing your girl better not just about how she is feeling but also about her desires. Keeping a conversation going is very important instead of making assumptions.
- Repeating: Repeating the same techniques and moments can become a bit boring. So don’t always stick to one particular idea of making your women feel aroused or pleasurable. You never know what might trigger her next time. Always try to be new with different things as you will get to know how she feels every time when you come up with new things. Every time you try something body responses in different manner. Know her mood as at times she might feel way hornier than think and at times she might would want to go slow. Keeping a track of mood can really help you in making her feel the real you. You should make her feel that it is both the ways satisfaction not just one way so always tries to use something different which she might have not even thought of.
- Keep it Physical: it is important for men to understand that brain stimulation is very important when it comes to women. They want to feel appreciated physically as well as mentally. If they are not relaxed mentally, they won’t be able to coordinate in terms of sexual activity. You must start appreciating her before you enter the room so that she feels confident about herself. Women think a lot about their fantasies while performing sexual activity so men must make them feel aroused every time, they are on bed either through strokes or speed by keeping it slower and then faster. If you will keep it physical, she might think that you are here for physical pleasures only and don’t want to be with her mentally.
- Intercourse is the Destination: penis in vagina should never be the end destination. Before thinking the same men should know that penis is vagina does not really work until she is aroused up to verge of moving her own body with you while you are penetrating. You should try oral sex for clitoral stimulation as hitting the g spot is very important in case of women. Along with those men must try different positions like girl on top to help her in actually feeling the need of orgasm. Use of sex toys is not always necessary but using them at times for keeping her up can be pretty much cool. Women feel orgasm when she is aroused and wet properly as the lubrication helps in smooth functioning and keeps her easy at south.
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